Sexy Christmas Ideas to "Spice it up"
Christmas is a time of joy, family and festive celebration, but it's also a great opportunity to re-connect with your lover. After all, there is a decent amount of downtime in between the hectic gatherings and Christmas parties, so why not spice up the sex life.... along with your spiced up latte!
The festive mood is a great time to suggest something new in the bedroom. If you find your love life is stale, Christmas is the ideal opportunity to bring home a new suggestion, sex toy, or sexy Santa lingerie to liven up your ordinary lovemaking routine.
Why is Christmas the best time to spice up the sex life? The joyous mood saturates us all, inhibitions are lowered in times of happiness and celebration, so if you've been hesitant to try sex toy play with your lover or add a dash of fantasy with an interactive Christmas role play game, take advantage of the festive season to introduce new sexual pleasures and intimate experiences.
Vacation sex is hot... but so is Christmas sex, it's really the same concept so instead of spending thousands on an exotic holiday, snuggle up with your lover by the fire and pick a few of these sexy Christmas suggestions and explore new levels of intimacy together.
Unwrap the Best Present "“ You!
Sexy Christmas lingerie is the top suggestion you'll probably see repeated on every list like this "“ and for good reason. It's festive and playful wrapped into one sweet little treat.
Some people may worry about body image or self esteem when it comes to donning lingerie, but if you choose one with tassels or white fluffy frills, it will hide some of the body and draw eye to the outfit. Essentially, you'll feel a but less shy.
Double that with the festive season and intimacy comes super easy. The sexy Santa or Elf is the most popular type of Christmas lingerie, and it also open the door for a few role play adventures that are easy for beginners to follow. Which leads me into my next point...
Sexy Santa Role Play
Role play is incredible popular, it offers the couple a chance to escape their reality and pretend to be someone else for a awhile. Sexy Santa role play is one of the easiest story plots to follow.
Start your sexy Santa role play with any the following statements:
- Come sit on Santa's lap and tell me what you want for Christmas
- You've been a naughty girl / guy this year, so to make the nice list you'll need to ______
- I'm your gift this year, and you'll have to unwrap me under the tree
- I want you to jingle my bells
- I want to eat your milk and cookies
Secretly Sexy Outdoor Play for Two
Wintertime brings a brisk chill to the air. The stillness of the diamond glittering world around us exudes romance, relaxation and passion, but did you know there is a new (and rather kinky) trend going on under everyone's winter clothes and snow suits that you may not be aware of?
It's called the remote control vibrator, the ultimate in couples sex toy play "“ but outdoors in public to add a dose of naughty kink factor. Normally it's not recommended to be wearing a panty vibrator or remote control bullet vibrator in public because it is still audible "“ but during winter when you're bundled up in layers of clothing, the unassuming passers-by won't hear a thing!
So give your lover the remote control and at their whim, they will active the motor or any of the vibrating modes. A quick pulse here, escalating roller coaster there, you'll never know when to expect a burst of sexual pleasure.
You gotta keep a straight face "“ it also adds a bit of kinky play such as withholding. The sexual arousal is constant and once you're indoors under the Christmas tree, the delayed anticipation leads up the best sex of your life. Seriously it's wild, sparks flying, orgasms aplenty.
Fireside Romantic Massage
For those who are stressed in their daily lives, a night of slow passion may be in order. There is no better time to enjoy a sensual massage than Christmastime.
It's really easy to set the mood "“ lay a blanket on your floor and turn off all the lights except the Christmas tree. Light the fireplace, if you have one. Illuminate up a sensual candle, a cinnamon based scent can be a powerful aphrodisiac while perfectly fitting the festive atmosphere.
Grab an edible massage oil and rub your lovers body. Enhance the moment with sensory play, grab some tinsel or a feather and lightly tickler your lovers body. Contrast the light touch with a soft bite. A contrast of hot and cold has the same effect.
Tingling peppermint feels chilly, then follow that by a lick of blow of hot breath. You can do this to any erogenous zone of the body from the clitoris to the nipples, but it is just as effective on the inner thighs, neck and belly too. Be creative and explore each other's bodies in the intimate moment.
Reconnect Over a Festive Feast
One of the best ways for couples to re-kindle romance is to cook together. Find a festive recipe, something a bit couples, enough that you'll need a to follow instructions. Source a dish you've never tried before, or something with an exotic blend of flavors to tempt the palette.
Set a festive mood in the kitchen "“ dim the lights, play some jazzy Christmas music in the background, light your favorite scented candles. There is something very intimate about preparing a dish together.
Check out some of the best cinematic romantic culinary movie scenes to get an idea of what to expect. Of course this has been glorified with Hollywood sets and extravagance, but you can use it as inspiration to create in your own holiday romantic movie scene in the kitchen, too.
What about spicing up the sex life? Sexperts will tell you that great sex begins outside of the bedroom. It's the little things that help us to press the pause button on our busy daily lives, shut out the world and focus on each other. This sense of relaxation and intimacy on personal level translates nicely to passion in the bedroom.
Santa Sex Coupons
Adult games are always popular, but especially those with a Christmas theme. Check out these Sexy Santa Coupons for couples. It's a cute stocking stuffer idea for men or women. The booklet features 12 tear-away coupons good for sexual treats and pleasures. Of course the Christmas theme is present for all your frisky festive fun!
The best part is this is probably the cheapest erotic Xmas gift out there, and it can fit right into a card, bouquet of flowers or wrapped as it's own standalone gift. If you're lacking new sexual positions or foreplay ideas to try in the bedroom or you find your sex life is repetitive, then sex coupons are a perfect reason to try something different.
Your Sexy Christmas is Right Around the Corner!
I hope you found some inspiration on ways to celebrate the holidays with your lover and reconnect on an intimate personal level during the holiday season. Take this opportunity to bring home a sex toy, try role play or relax by the fire.
There are so many ways to re-kindle passion and romance so communicate with your partner and check out some other articles online as there are plenty of interesting suggestions out there. Happy holidays and Merry Christmas wherever you are!